The Limitations of Love

Rev. Steven D. Spencer (1-29-06)

 

1 Corinthians 8:1-13

1 Corinthians 8:1 Now concerning things sacrificed to idols, we know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge makes arrogant, but love edifies. 2 If anyone supposes that he knows anything, he has not yet known as he ought to know; 3 but if anyone loves God, he is known by Him. 4 Therefore concerning the eating of things sacrificed to idols, we know that there is no such thing as an idol in the world, and that there is no God but one. 5 For even if there are so-called gods whether in heaven or on earth, as indeed there are many gods and many lords, 6 yet for us there is but one God, the Father, from whom are all things, and we exist for Him; and one Lord, Jesus Christ, by whom are all things, and we exist through Him. 7 However not all men have this knowledge; but some, being accustomed to the idol until now, eat food as if it were sacrificed to an idol; and their conscience being weak is defiled. 8 But food will not commend us to God; we are neither the worse if we do not eat, nor the better if we do eat. 9 But take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. 10 For if someone sees you, who have knowledge, dining in an idol's temple, will not his conscience, if he is weak, be strengthened to eat things sacrificed to idols? 11 For through your knowledge he who is weak is ruined, the brother for whose sake Christ died. 12 And thus, by sinning against the brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. 13 Therefore, if food causes my brother to stumble, I will never eat meat again, that I might not cause my brother to stumble.

The glorious reality of our lives in Christ is this: we have been set free! We have been set free from our old way of life. We have been set free from the power of sin, death and the devil. And we have been set free to live life abundantly.

But just how free are we free to be? Are there any limitations to our freedom in Christ? Are we totally free to do anything we like? We are all familiar with the line of reasoning that says, "I am free to do anything I please as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else." It sounds good, doesn’t it? The only difficulty with this kind of reasoning is that it assumes we can be totally independent of other people. It assumes that the decisions we make and the actions we take do not impact anyone else.

The poet John Donne said: "no man is an island." And here lay our problem; we don't live in isolation. All of us are part of a community. What impacts you affects me. My actions impact you. The reality of our situation is that we are all interconnected. And this is especially true for the church.

The church is a picture of the basic the family unit. We are the family of God. Just as when we were born, we were born into a family, so when we were born again, we became a part of the church. Others in the church are our brothers and sisters. We are part of this community, this fellowship, this family, and what we do and how we live directly impacts us all.

The church in Corinth was facing an issue of Christian liberty. The questions we asked earlier, they were asking. How free are we free to be? What are the limitations to our Christian freedom? For them, it had to do with food sacrificed to idols. None of us has probably ever had to think about that specific issue. But the general issue applies to us as well. It is the issue of how exercising my Christian liberty might affect others. Does my behavior help or hinder my brothers and sisters in Christ?

The apostle Paul points out several important considerations that should guide our behavior. In determining how free we are free to be, there are three important people to consider.

I. First Consider Yourself (verses 1-3)

Now about food sacrificed to idols: We know that we all possess knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up. The man who thinks he knows something does not yet know as he ought to know. But the man who loves God is known by God. (8:1-3 NIV)

The first-person you need to consider is you. Before you can look outward, you need to look inward. You need to take a good long look at yourself to determine your own situation. There are two areas suggested in our text.

1.      The first is the area of knowledge. You need to look at what you know. Do you have knowledge? If so, rejoice. Knowledge is a good thing to have. In fact, as we grow in our relationship to Christ, we also grow in our knowledge of Him and of His ways. This is a good thing, an essential thing. But it can be a dangerous thing as well, if we rely too heavily on what we know. You see, while knowledge is essential, it is not sufficient. And when we put too much trust in what we know, it can cause us to become proud. Our text says that knowledge puffs up. It can cause us to feel self-sufficient. It can make us arrogant. We begin to look down on others who do not have the same level of knowledge.

2.      The second area is love. You not only need to ask yourself what you know, you also need to ask yourself who do you love? Do you love God? Are you passionate for Him? Paul tells us that while knowledge puffs up, love builds up. He goes on to tell us that the man who loves God is known by God. In other words, love is the foundation of our relationship with God and the essential building block of the healthy life.

Do you love God? How do you know? So often, people today evaluate their love for God by how they feel. Don't get me wrong; I believe that feelings are important. I think that our feelings ought to be involved in our relationship with Christ. But feelings can be erratic. I may feel ten different ways in an average week. And so many people think they love God because they have a sentimental feeling toward God. Yet many of those same people can’t even get out of bed to come to church. Many of those same people never give of their time, or talent, or resources to the work of the kingdom. But they say they love Jesus because they have a warm feeling in their heart toward him. It’s a dangerous assumption.

There is a better test for our love for God. It is the test of obedience. How do you know that you love God? You know because you do what he wants you to do. 1 John 5:3 says, "This is love for God: to obey his commands." If you really love God, that love will be shown in how you live for him. Do you put him first in your life? That’s what God wants you to do. God wants you to step forward and never look back. He wants Jesus to be the driving force of your life, the reason that you live. We are to love God with all of our hearts, souls, minds, and strength.

II. Secondly We need to Consider Others

So then, about eating food sacrificed to idols: We know that an idol is nothing at all in the world and that there is no God but one. For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as indeed there are many "gods" and many "lords"), yet for us there is but one God, the Father, from whom all things came and for whom we live; and there is but one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things came and through whom we live. But not everyone knows this. Some people are still so accustomed to idols that when they eat such food they think of it as having been sacrificed to an idol, and since their conscience is weak, it is defiled. But food does not bring us near to God; we are no worse if we do not eat, and no better if we do. (8:4-8 NIV)

After we’ve taken a good long look at ourselves, then we need to consider others. We need to consider what they don’t know. Our text indicates that not everyone is in the same place with their knowledge of the truth.

The Corinthian's were concerned with the eating of food sacrificed to idols. Paul indicated that an idol was nothing. It was the representation of a god that did not exist. He knew that, and mature Christians knew it as well. But not everyone knew that. There were Christians who had not come to the knowledge that there is but one God. Some still saw these idols as being significant. And they were having problems justifying eating the meat sacrificed in the pagan temples.

You see, the animal sacrifices that were brought to the pagan temples in Corinth eventually ended up in the marketplace. Part of the meat was burned up in the sacrifice. Another portion was given to the priest. And the rest was sold in the market. That was the best place to find the best meat. But was that meat contaminated because it was a religious sacrifice? Was it wrong for a Christian to eat meat sacrificed to a pagan god? And was it right for a Christian who had no qualms about eating that meat to eat it in the presence of someone who did? How free are we to act?

The Scriptures teach knowing the truth sets us free. But knowledge of the truth comes with time and experience. Some Christians need time to grow in their knowledge. And we need to take into account the fact that others may not be where we are in our walk with God. And when it comes to questionable things, we need to consider the situation of others. We need to consider what they may not know. And we also need to consider where they may be weak and need time to grow in knowledge and faith.

St. Paul says in verses 9 through 11:  Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak.  For if anyone with a weak conscience sees you who have this knowledge eating in an idol’s temple, won’t he be emboldened to eat what has been sacrificed to idols? So this weak brother, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge. (8:9-11 NIV)

Paul talks about the weak brother. He is weak because he does not possess the knowledge necessary to understand that eating food sacrificed to idols is nothing. But weakness is not sin. And we need to understand that. We need to take into account the spiritual situation of our brothers and sisters in Christ. We need to be careful that our behavior does not become a stumbling block to the weak.

Some people may have scruples based on conscience. In those cases, we need to be careful and to respect their hesitation. You see, if someone believes that a particular behavior is a sin, for them it is a sin.  We call this type of sin ADIAPHORA or sins of the conscience.  St. Paul writes in Romans 14:20-23: Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble. It is better not to eat meat or drink wine or to do anything else that will cause your brother to fall. So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the man who does not condemn himself by what he approves. But the man who has doubts is condemned if he eats, because his eating is not from faith; and everything that does not come from faith is sin.

The Scripture are clear that if we cannot act in faith, we will end up in sin. If someone believes that it's a sin to eat meat sacrificed to idols, for them it is. To do so they will have disobeyed God in their heart. And if, by our behavior, we cause them to be act against conscience, we cause them to sin. That’s why we must be careful to consider others before we act.

III. Thirdly Consider Christ verses 12 -13

When you sin against your brothers in this way and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ.  Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall. (8:12-13 NIV)

As a final consideration we must consider Christ. You see, when you sin against your brothers, you sin against Christ. In everything we do and choose not to do, Christ should be the primary consideration.

We need to consider what will glorify him. After all, that is why we are here, to glorify God. How can we honor him? How can we exalt him? This should be our desire. We should desire for our lives to bring him glory and honor and praise. And we should live like that. We should live in such a way that we reflect his character, grace, mercy and love. We should desire that when people look at us they would see Jesus.

We need to consider what will please Him. Is he pleased with my actions? Do my choices reflect his priorities? To be pleasing to the Lord is a high honor indeed. Is His will my desire? These are the kind of questions–– probing questions–– that we need to be asking ourselves. Because, if Jesus is not the top priority of our lives, then our lives will lack the purpose and meaning God intends for them to have.

The real issue is what motivates us. What controls the way we live? Are we controlled by your own sinful desires to get, to have and to possess? Or are we controlled by a higher desire–– a desire to please God and walk in his love?

2 Corinthians 5:14-15 Whatever we do, it is because Christ’s love controls us. Since we believe that Christ died for everyone, we also believe that we have all died to the old life we used to live. 15 He died for everyone so that those who receive his new life will no longer live to please themselves. Instead, they will live to please Christ, who died and was raised for them. (2 Corinthians 5:14-15 NAS)

As Christians, we should be controlled by Christ’s love. That is really what we have been talking about here today. When we speak about the limitations of love, we are not implying that love is limited but rather that we are limited or controlled by love. It is for love’s sake that we choose not to cause our brother to stumble. We may be more mature and have a more complete knowledge. And we may be free to indulge. But we are also free to choose not to indulge for the sake of our brother. So we limit our behavior in his presence so that he can continue to grow in grace and knowledge.

It is the love of Christ that guides our steps, controls our decisions, and causes us to live, not for ourselves, but for others. It is the love of Christ that causes us to live to please Christ. When you walk in love and you will walk in the power of God. Walk in love and you will build up your brother. Walk in love and you will please the one who teaches us to love, for God is Love. Because of love, God sent His son to die for us. Because of love, our sins are no longer counted against us. Because of Love God has restored His relationship with us. Love conquers all. I leave you with this verse. 1 John 4:11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.  In Jesus name. Amen!